if a client does not request to have a call back or a text do not fUken do IT!!!

[xoxJanexox]

I go even further and when a regular phones me I always answer with an unknowing "Hello" and never greet them by name right away like "Hi Bob".. Just in case it's his wife calling.. I had that happen once..

This is the way things shall be done!

[toban]

Uninvited call-backs should be a NO-NO!



There's something wrong with the thinking (or lack of same) behind the responses some girls are posting here. Because they happen to be working as a business entrepreneur they do not automatically have permission to call any number which happens to appear in their call display. Not only that, but in my opinion calling numbers back smacks of desperation doesn't it? An interested client will persevere.

Personally, I have an answering machine always on with an offer to return calls a.s.a.p. so if no message is left the caller wasn't really very serious about speaking to me. I don't call them back. That call could even have been misdialed.

I have to wonder why girls don't set their phones to Voicemail when beginning a session thereby eliminating the annoyance caused by the incessant incoming calls, not only to them but also to their current and potential clients. When faced with an answering machine the caller could be presented with an option to leave a message. If no message is left - the issue is dead! It means no call-back!

A message such as "The time is now 10:30. If you wish to speak with me please call again after 11:30" or please callback in 30 minutes or whatever time frame is appropriate could be left. Clearing those calls after the client has left would take only a couple minutes unless a call-back had been requested. Wouldn't everyone be happier with such consideration? If I were told to "Fuck Off" by an SP I definitely would and for good too, never to return!

Here's something unrelated but ongoing and still along the same line of this current thread though it is accidental in nature, caused by misbehaving Blackberry phones.:- http://terb.ca/vbulletin/showthread....out-Permission

[detox]

it is funny to see who agrees with me and who does not. i wonder about what few have mentioned, perhaps desperation by a provider, perhaps a slow day, or simply lacking common sense.

[merelypink]

yes a prepaid phone from walmart problem solved!!

[Ana_Jolie]

it is funny to see who agrees with me and who does not. i wonder about what few have mentioned, perhaps desperation by a provider, perhaps a slow day, or simply lacking common sense.

LOL Whatever buddy youre clueless for calling from a number where you do not want return calls made to and dont express this to said person. Then you have the gull to say people are lacking common sense because their opinion differs? Youre an idiot plain and simple.

[Ana_Jolie]

yes a prepaid phone from walmart problem solved!!

If only everyone shared the common sense shared in this post

[sunshine]

Still not logical

Everyone is entitled to an opinion. However, opinion is not fact. This situation can be interpreted in many ways. There is no logic that says a girl should call someone back or not call someone back. Personally, I rarely call anyone back, even if they leave a message. However, sometimes I am expecting a call and a number I don't recognize shows up on my screen...

From a slightly different perspective, did you know that some girls never answer calls directly, always noting the number, checking it out, and then calling the person back. This is a legitimate way to operate. I don't use this method myself but I know girls who do.

The way I see it, if a client calls a girl, he must want to speak with her. That's logical. The only other possibility is that he is calling to play games in which case he deserves whatever comes his way. Now if a guy wants to talk to a girl and dials her number but does not reach her, he should not be surprised if she returns the call within a short amount of time. If he doesn't want a return call, he should leave a message and let her know that. He's the one who initiated contact so it falls to him to leave clear instructions in this regard.

In relation to regular businesses and how they handle calls, this has nothing to do with what the girls do - this is not a job, it is not a business, at least not in the ordinary sense.

Besides, do you think that coming on the forum and complaining that a girl called you back is going to make her change her way of doing things? Unlikely. The only way you could effect such a change is to name her publicly in an attempt to force her to change. This is similar to posting a bad review of a girl to knock a girl down a notch, regardless of how the session went or posting a good review to prop her up regardless of how it went. My question is - do you feel so certain that your opinion is fact that you are willing to lambaste the girl publicly?

I realize you didn't name the girl on this thread and I'm glad you didn't. This is all opinion and conjecture, not fact. Different girls handle phone calls differently. The same goes for texts and e-mails.

If you don't like what happens when you call a girl, don't call girls. You have all the power here. Manage your affairs in a way which suits you and don't expect others to behave the way you want, especially when this requires mind-reading - it's not something you can count on. The girls are human beings and have as much right to an opinion as you do.

Sunshine

[Barbie_Swallows]

i never tend to post unless it is a review, but here it goes.
i been meaning to create a post for a while now.

ladies!!!

if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT call back.
if i call you and do not leave a message, DO NOT TEXT.
if i text you, and mention in the text not to text me back or text me until a certain time, PLEASE DO SO!!!

most of you, in all of your ads keep mentioning that privacy and discretion is assured!!!? i believe some of you need to google the actual terms and descriptions of your codes of conduct!!!
It seems more and more of you have no idea what discretion and privacy means.

so to all of you, have respect, like most of us do. i call you with unblocked number or a text, that does NOT give you the right to call back or text when it is convenient to you!!!

Detox.

This loser must obviously be a total bottom, cause only they are fucking....

[sadehoney]

real men

If your a real man you can call me, my services are only for a real man !

[aguyoutthere1]

I guess this is not an unwritten rule or common sense. Opinions obviously vary. If only the show could be on the other foot. i suppose it is hard to imagine being the client expecting discretion.

Let's just make a note that every time we call, we risk a call back . See should make sure that we take precautions for the next year or so that some girls may call back. OK maybe not a year.

Burner phones are great, until they are found and you need to explain them.

As someone else mentioned, if anyone in my business or personal life does not leave a message, I would never call them back. Most of my missed calls are telemarketers. Do you all call them back too? I'd be calling back 4 times a night.


KC

[Crossover1]

I would be horrified if a girl called back. Despite all the blah blah blah justifying it, lots of men have wives and girlfriends, and often call in moments in between. This, girls, is reality, and while it's nice to tell men to get burner phones etc., this is not reality for most men.

The bottom line is if you call me back, you've lost my business. If it doesn't bother you, so be it.

Very basic rule of discretion is this one.

[Crossover1]

If he doesn't want a return call, he should leave a message and let her know that. He's the one who initiated contact so it falls to him to leave clear instructions in this regard.

Nope. Dead wrong. There are general rules of discretion in the escort game, and this is one that existed long before you were born and many of us were hobbying. It's not even up for discussion.

The only time you call back is if he did give you permission to call back. This is not an "opinion" as you like to say, but an accepted norm. The onus is not on the client to tell you he doesn't want a callback. Geez.

Those who don't follow this norm simply risk losing business. It's all rather simple. All you who escort can have both security and discretion for your client. They're not mutually exclusive.

[sunshine]

No, it is an opinion

Nope. Dead wrong. There are general rules of discretion in the escort game, and this is one that existed long before you were born and many of us were hobbying. It's not even up for discussion.

The only time you call back is if he did give you permission to call back. This is not an "opinion" as you like to say, but an accepted norm. The onus is not on the client to tell you he doesn't want a callback. Geez.

Those who don't follow this norm simply risk losing business. It's all rather simple. All you who escort can have both security and discretion for your client. They're not mutually exclusive.

You ignored what I said about the girls who never answer phone calls but take the time to check out the number and then call it back. The truth is different girls operate different ways. Some only do e-mail, some only do phone calls, some require a contact form which will include a contact number, some have some other way to do it. The girls set up a system so they feel safe and confident they are not being played.

Cold calling clients is never OK - I agree with that. Unless a client asks for a call when you visit, this is highly inappropriate. But we aren't talking about that. We are talking about a client who calls a girl, doesn't get through, and receives a call back within a few minutes.

You can say it any way you want but if you call someone, anyone, and you don't get an answer, it is a possibility that you may get a call back. Or you won't get one, it depends on how the person receiving the call sees it. It doesn't depend on some law of escorting. So, if you don't want a call back, leave clear instructions that you don't want a call back. You've covered your bases. If the girl calls you back anyway, she's in the wrong. But if you don't let the girl know not to call back, you can expect that she may call back. It's a possibility. It depends how the girl operates and how she sees this issue.

I'm not going to repeat this again, I think I've illustrated the point clearly. It doesn't matter if someone agrees with the poster's opinion, that does not make it a fact. It remains an opinion.

Sunshine

[tsKITANA]

??

If your a real man you can call me, my services are only for a real man !

although the OP mentioned the word "call" on the title....
what does your statement have to do anything...or even remotely relevant with this thread? just wondering.

[bottomguyusually]

although the OP mentioned the word "call" on the title....
what does your statement have to do anything...or even remotely relevant with with this thread? just wondering.

Who asked you!