Tia Phoenixx: "Tranny Mafia" does exist!- my real experience

[Tia Phoenixx]

Last time I counted there were 700 on SMC alone, just in Canada! Thanks for explaining a common "day in the life", cuz when you live in an igloo, have a pet polar bear named Peety, and rely on seals to transport my computer 100 miles just to get a signal, being in the "know" of how things are become alien

hahaha.. I love that. I love farmer type you know...
My dream is living in a farm surrounded by mountain and lakes.
Nice joke

[Tia Phoenixx]

I am trying to get the numbers here straight because they seem to be difficult to digest.

Do you mean that 10% of the escorts are successful? Of course using what I understood as "successful" to your terms (i.e, making 500 K/year)?

If this is your position, then I would disagree. I am not here engaging with your own numbers but I am trying to give the reader some helpful information.

I am a member in one of the private lounges where most of the high end escorts in Canada are there. I wont divulge any personal information, but there was at one point a discussion about the volumes and you would be surprised that most would entertain handful of clients per week only. There are different reasons for that, maintaining a demand is an issue and maintaining quality is another concern as well.

You make it sound as if escorts work like FEDEX in a way. In the post #55, you stated that a successful escort would see 6 - 10 clients per day. Now the average person can just imagine the level of quality of the session at such numbers on daily basis. We are talking here about highly intimate profession.

If we just take the lowest number (6 clients per day) we are talking about 6 hrs per minimum of intimate time. A quality companion won't do back to back for many reasons (discretion is one) and it would be reasonable to see 1 hr between the sessions to be expected. So we are talking in total about 12 hrs out of 24 hrs!

Now what would be the picture for the escort seeing 10 clients per day on a steady base, if one to believe that such a demand exists on a "constant" basis.

The second point is what you describe a successful and high demand. I don't perceive my numbers when I am visiting Toronto, for example, as an indication of my demand. If I spend there 6-8 days per year and I can't generate enough clientele, then I should call it a quit.

Could be there very few escorts making the numbers you cited, possibly there are but they are "very very few" and no where near 10%. If you want to talk about the Canadian market, we have hundreds of girls advertising so we should at least have tens in the the category you have described. We should also see some comparable level of lifestyles, marketing, and wealth. A quick look at Shemale Canada should give anyone a good idea!

read carefully my previous explanation Jane.

I'm not saying that we have to earn 500K in order to be called successful.
I have stated that i don;t earn that much in a year anyway. But i do consider myself successful.

Successful can be valued by so many factors.
Some people value happiness at 1st place to be considered successful, others may consider money as an indicator of being a successful.
I consider both.

It's hard to be completely happy and free of being an escort, so i have to work on my happiness thus (if you read my previous explain) i work only 6 to 8 months a year to ensure that i'm not jaded working as an escort and can maintain my quality of service.

It is hard to see 6 to 10 clients or sometimes even more in a day. But trust me, some of us are able to do that, including me.
It;s called great stamina and high sex drive. That is the 1st criteria of being a good escort: love to have sex (check my previous explanation)

I love men of different types. They can be 23 yo, 45, 68 even 83 yo...i will still give them great service if they are respectful and nice.
However, it can be tiring after sometimes. Boring is actually more precise.

Therefore, again if you read my explanation, i try to avoid one hour appointment, but encourage multiple hours even day booking appointment.

Now, let's talk about the criteria of being successful financially.

I personally think, an escort should earn at least 100K a year in order to continue this as a profession.
If not, it;s better to do it as a part time job.

Personally, I think an escort can be called successful if she earns 200K or more in a year. But again this is only my personal opinion.
If we know how to market ourselves and we have what it takes to be a good escort, we can get that amount in 3.5 to 4 months.

conclusion: it is hard to be a financially successful escort indeed, but hey though it is rare, few of us can make it to that level

simple test:
How do we know whether or not we are a good escort?
answer:
go to the toughest market for tgirl escorts: USA, NYC especially.
If we can be successful in NYC, we can be successful everywhere in this world.

[Tia Phoenixx]

I am trying to get the numbers here straight because they seem to be difficult to digest.

Do you mean that 10% of the escorts are successful? Of course using what I understood as "successful" to your terms (i.e, making 500 K/year)?

If this is your position, then I would disagree. I am not here engaging with your own numbers but I am trying to give the reader some helpful information.

I am a member in one of the private lounges where most of the high end escorts in Canada are there. I wont divulge any personal information, but there was at one point a discussion about the volumes and you would be surprised that most would entertain handful of clients per week only. There are different reasons for that, maintaining a demand is an issue and maintaining quality is another concern as well.

You make it sound as if escorts work like FEDEX in a way. In the post #55, you stated that a successful escort would see 6 - 10 clients per day. Now the average person can just imagine the level of quality of the session at such numbers on daily basis. We are talking here about highly intimate profession.

If we just take the lowest number (6 clients per day) we are talking about 6 hrs per minimum of intimate time. A quality companion won't do back to back for many reasons (discretion is one) and it would be reasonable to see 1 hr between the sessions to be expected. So we are talking in total about 12 hrs out of 24 hrs!

A. Now what would be the picture for the escort seeing 10 clients per day on a steady base, if one to believe that such a demand exists on a "constant" basis.

The second point is what you describe a successful and high demand. I don't perceive my numbers when I am visiting Toronto, for example, as an indication of my demand. If I spend there 6-8 days per year and I can't generate enough clientele, then I should call it a quit.

B. Could be there very few escorts making the numbers you cited, possibly there are but they are "very very few" and no where near 10%. If you want to talk about the Canadian market, we have hundreds of girls advertising so we should at least have tens in the the category you have described. We should also see some comparable level of lifestyles, marketing, and wealth. A quick look at Shemale Canada should give anyone a good idea!

A. it exists!
And how to ensure that the demand will exist continuously? again, check my previous explanation. I've answered it: traveling!

B. Not too sure about the percentage. But you might be right. It might be less than 10%, again as I already explained: 10% or less


Gotta go. Time to have fun now

[rider014]

hahaha.. I love that. I love farmer type you know...
My dream is living in a farm surrounded by mountain and lakes.
Nice joke

Who's joking sweetie... -44 here today ya ok the bear, the seals are a little overkill, but it's nasty out here.

[xoxJanexox]

I'm not saying that we have to earn 500K in order to be called successful.
I have stated that i don;t earn that much in a year anyway. But i do consider myself successful.

Bingo, this what I wanted to clarify.

[Tia Phoenixx]

Who's joking sweetie... -44 here today ya ok the bear, the seals are a little overkill, but it's nasty out here.

Well, -44 is cold, but if you have a great partner you will be happy cuddling together.

I wonder why nobody asks me: what is the drawback of this profession, even though an escort is financially successful?
Even though she has earned her millions...something is still missing...

Any thoughts? comments?

[rider014]

Well, -44 is cold, but if you have a great partner you will be happy cuddling together.

I wonder why nobody asks me: what is the drawback of this profession, even though an escort is financially successful?
Even though she has earned her millions...something is still missing...

Any thoughts? comments?

The polar bear duh! OK I think I might know the answer to this but here goes.... What are you missing Tia?

[Tia Phoenixx]

food for thought

The polar bear duh! OK I think I might know the answer to this but here goes.... What are you missing Tia?

What do you think is the answer?

Remember that we are talking about a successful escort here.
You can have any clients you want: From the rich and famous to the popular handsome college guys.
Money is not an issue. Men are all over the place.

You told them, you like guys with muscle, athletic built and top, here they come.
You told them, you like mature, older, wise gentlemen..here they come
You told them, you like smart, charming gentlemen...here they come

You told them, you never fly a plane...then somebody offers to teach you how
You told them, you want to drive a Lamborghini for fun...and somebody will lend you his car.
You told them that you like hairy men....and suddenly almost every client has hairy chest LOL
You have so many men who like you...the stock of men is limitless

so what is still missing do you think?

[TSFantasia]

What do you think is the answer?

Remember that we are talking about a successful escort here.
You can have any clients you want: From the rich and famous to the popular handsome college guys.
Money is not an issue. Men are all over the place.

You told them, you like guys with muscle, athletic built and top, here they come.
You told them, you like mature, older, wise gentlemen..here they come
You told them, you like smart, charming gentlemen...here they come

You told them, you never fly a plane...then somebody offers to teach you how
You told them, you want to drive a Lamborghini for fun...and somebody will lend you his car.
You told them that you like hairy men....and suddenly almost every client has hairy chest LOL
You have so many men who like you...the stock of men is limitless

so what is still missing do you think?

The one you love whose arms you fall asleep in after making love and who wakes you up with a kiss on the cheek and a smile in the morning! The one who wants to spend the rest of his life with you and you with him! Hopeless romantic I know but a girl can dream

[Tia Phoenixx]

The one you love whose arms you fall asleep in after making love and who wakes you up with a kiss on the cheek and a smile in the morning! The one who wants to spend the rest of his life with you and you with him! Hopeless romantic I know but a girl can dream

sweet and yes, i agree. but that is not in my mind.
It's a personal thing, everybody has different answer.
I will tell you my personal answers later on



you told them that you are going to be a post op..then soon you receive so many e-mails from guys signing up to fuck you with your new vagina
Men think you are the one and only..
so what's still missing...?

[rider014]

Too many words

What do you think is the answer?

Remember that we are talking about a successful escort here.
You can have any clients you want: From the rich and famous to the popular handsome college guys.
Money is not an issue. Men are all over the place.

You told them, you like guys with muscle, athletic built and top, here they come.
You told them, you like mature, older, wise gentlemen..here they come
You told them, you like smart, charming gentlemen...here they come

You told them, you never fly a plane...then somebody offers to teach you how
You told them, you want to drive a Lamborghini for fun...and somebody will lend you his car.
You told them that you like hairy men....and suddenly almost every client has hairy chest LOL
You have so many men who like you...the stock of men is limitless

so what is still missing do you think?

Well, it's almost like, what do you get the person for Christmas that has everything? Shouldn't answer a question with a question, but maybe I set myself up for that. Simplest answer..... Love. Honest true love, not to be confused with lust. Now I don't know about love from an escort's point of view, but from my own life experience I do have some knowledge about it or the lack thereof.

Growing up in a relatively loveless family, the skin got a little thicker, the heart a little colder, and before you knew it, the whole concept seemed a little alien. You would see two people anywhere out in society that were madly on love and say to yourself, I wonder how I could be like that? It's not that a person doesn't understand the concept, it's basically their inability to feel it. Not anyone's fault, but I think that is probably one of the toughest emotions to fully understand, especially if situations in a person's life warrants walls to be put up to shield what could be love. As the walls get thicker, they get harder to knock down. Well, am I in the ball park or the parking lot?

[Tia Phoenixx]

Well, it's almost like, what do you get the person for Christmas that has everything? Shouldn't answer a question with a question, but maybe I set myself up for that. Simplest answer..... Love. Honest true love, not to be confused with lust. Now I don't know about love from an escort's point of view, but from my own life experience I do have some knowledge about it or the lack thereof.

Growing up in a relatively loveless family, the skin got a little thicker, the heart a little colder, and before you knew it, the whole concept seemed a little alien. You would see two people anywhere out in society that were madly on love and say to yourself, I wonder how I could be like that? It's not that a person doesn't understand the concept, it's basically their inability to feel it. Not anyone's fault, but I think that is probably one of the toughest emotions to fully understand, especially if situations in a person's life warrants walls to be put up to shield what could be love. As the walls get thicker, they get harder to knock down. Well, am I in the ball park or the parking lot?

It's 7:04 am in beautiful Charleston. I stay in the old part of the city, near the ocean with so many gorgeous, colonial mansions along the street and facing the shore. It's so beautiful and serene.

Thanks for sharing. Love is a must for everybody, and ultimately yes, she definitely needs true love. The one who accept and care for her, and love her the way she is.

But she is not there yet...far away.

How can she find love is her life is busy with clients and traveling.

when people talk about Rob Ford, she even did not know who Rob Ford is, even though she has one of her houses in Toronto. She barely lives there, only few days in a year
Her life seems to be perfect...but actually it is far from being perfect

When she is tired of working.
She goes for walking enjoying the nature, sitting in a coffee shop, observing people..and sitting and dreaming if she could have done it differently.
She receives so many gifts from clients...you name it..from diamonds, expensive shoes to Swiss chocolate.
She does not care for most of them, she gives most of the gifts to her sisters.
She never thinks she can be this successful before until she realizes now it's almost impossible to build up a completely a new life.

Something is missing....

She has a hard to time to find true love even true friends....what she wants is completely different from what she gets....

I will answer the question from my stand point of view tonight.

Now, it's time to have breakfast and hit the gym before seeing my 1st client of the day




Tia

[rider014]

Must be nice... Or is it?

It's 7:04 am in beautiful Charleston. I stay in the old part of the city, near the ocean with so many gorgeous, colonial mansions along the street and facing the shore. It's so beautiful and serene.

Thanks for sharing. Love is a must for everybody, and ultimately yes, she definitely needs true love. The one who accept and care for her, and love her the way she is.

But she is not there yet...far away.

How can she find love is her life is busy with clients and traveling.

when people talk about Rob Ford, she even did not know who Rob Ford is, even though she has one of her houses in Toronto. She barely lives there, only few days in a year
Her life seems to be perfect...but actually it is far from being perfect

When she is tired of working.
She goes for walking enjoying the nature, sitting in a coffee shop, observing people..and sitting and dreaming if she could have done it differently.
She receives so many gifts from clients...you name it..from diamonds, expensive shoes to Swiss chocolate.
She does not care for most of them, she gives most of the gifts to her sisters.
She never thinks she can be this successful before until she realizes now it's almost impossible to build up a completely a new life.

Something is missing....

She has a hard to time to find true love even true friends....what she wants is completely different from what she gets....

I will answer the question from my stand point of view tonight.

Now, it's time to have breakfast and hit the gym before seeing my 1st client of the day




Tia

Well that sounds like paradise, you could wake up to a balmy -30 with a windchill that makes it feel like -45. Looking out from my picture window... Very much resembles the ice planet of Hoth.(Star Wars V) The point being fantasy vs reality.
Seven billion people on the planet, and I'm guessing here but I am willing to bet that maybe 1-2 % of the entire population share your success and lifestyle. To you, reality, the rest of the world, fantasy. Maybe to simply answer love may have touched just the surface of what you yearn, which is maybe to join the majorities reality. Funny how everyone wants to live the life of luxury, could it be possible that one wants to do the exact opposite?

Now I'm not saying a total 180 degree turn to absolute poverty, maybe a more realistic middle class lifestyle? Words like budget and phrases like, we can't afford it probably don't exist in the lifestyles of the "haves". It would probably take a major adjustment to adapt to " the rest of us" in basic every day living. They say money can't buy happiness and maybe we're seeing that here

Now that love and poverty have been addressed, what else could there be? Acceptance, or maybe the fear of not being accepted by a different society and a regular guy. Let's face it, the obstacles are big and they all come at once. Is there an individual that can accept you for who you are and not what you were? I know the hands would come flying up here if I were to ask if there were any guys who would commit themselves only to you and be able to forget the fact that you were once a high end t-girl escort that travelled the world and had lived the life of luxury and had encounters with countless clients? In a world filled with infidelity, and you know this to be true, I'm going to use the cliche "needle in a haystack". Not impossible, but very difficult. To go from all of what you have to possibly what you want, would be a culture shock that would split the San Andreas fault line. All of the stars would have to line up with the planets on a perfect night to make something of this magnitude fly. It's not all doom and gloom though as one should never underestimate the will of a person. Something a little less personal as well, some sort of career where you could join the rest of us bitching about our bosses and telling them our real "opinions" at the Christmas party after about a dozen drinks . Kinda took a hard left off the thread here but oh well, sue me! Oh wait, can't get blood from a stone

[Tia Phoenixx]

avoiding the "devil circle"

Well that sounds like paradise, you could wake up to a balmy -30 with a windchill that makes it feel like -45. Looking out from my picture window... Very much resembles the ice planet of Hoth.(Star Wars V) The point being fantasy vs reality.
Seven billion people on the planet, and I'm guessing here but I am willing to bet that maybe 1-2 % of the entire population share your success and lifestyle. To you, reality, the rest of the world, fantasy. Maybe to simply answer love may have touched just the surface of what you yearn, which is maybe to join the majorities reality. Funny how everyone wants to live the life of luxury, could it be possible that one wants to do the exact opposite?

Now I'm not saying a total 180 degree turn to absolute poverty, maybe a more realistic middle class lifestyle? Words like budget and phrases like, we can't afford it probably don't exist in the lifestyles of the "haves". It would probably take a major adjustment to adapt to " the rest of us" in basic every day living. They say money can't buy happiness and maybe we're seeing that here

Now that love and poverty have been addressed, what else could there be? Acceptance, or maybe the fear of not being accepted by a different society and a regular guy. Let's face it, the obstacles are big and they all come at once. Is there an individual that can accept you for who you are and not what you were? I know the hands would come flying up here if I were to ask if there were any guys who would commit themselves only to you and be able to forget the fact that you were once a high end t-girl escort that travelled the world and had lived the life of luxury and had encounters with countless clients? In a world filled with infidelity, and you know this to be true, I'm going to use the cliche "needle in a haystack". Not impossible, but very difficult. To go from all of what you have to possibly what you want, would be a culture shock that would split the San Andreas fault line. All of the stars would have to line up with the planets on a perfect night to make something of this magnitude fly. It's not all doom and gloom though as one should never underestimate the will of a person. Something a little less personal as well, some sort of career where you could join the rest of us bitching about our bosses and telling them our real "opinions" at the Christmas party after about a dozen drinks . Kinda took a hard left off the thread here but oh well, sue me! Oh wait, can't get blood from a stone

She was born beautiful...it's a privilege
she was born smart...it's a privilege
She has charm and inner quality....it's a privilege
She is fit, born with good genes...it's a privilege
She has all of those qualities above, she is becoming superior thus becoming exclusive.

She has a hard time to find an equal partner with similar qualities.
Of course, there are others who are capable of standing together equally with her. But all of them are "taken"
Most good, eligible men with those qualities have already had partner beside them.

Being transgender and being an escort make the situation even worse, if not the worst.

Escorting is a life of fantasy.
Men come to see an escort to be fulfilled and satisfied sexually (and sometimes, mentally and intellectually too). Full stop.

There is no string attached, it's purely business transaction most of the time.
High end professional escort meet high end professional men. They are a perfect match for an hour or two or one week at best. Full stop.

And then?
At the end of the day, though she is "showered" by thousands of dollars daily, she might feel "empty" and "lonely" inside.
She is too tired to mingle or go to the club after seeing those demanding business men and high end professionals.

There is no social life. She entertains herself by accepting cute, hunky boys at night.
But they don;t satisfy her mentally and intellectually. They are merely sex toys for her. She needs much more than that.

She just wish that she could do it all over again from the very beginning.
She just wish that she used her MBA degree and worked normally like others the moment she finished her graduate school.

But it's too late now. It's been almost 8 years being an escort.
She has forgotten 99% of her knowledge, even her English is getting worse everyday.

She is busy everyday with clients but yet, she feels lonely.

Does she want to change her life, forget about her jet setting, luxurious life and just being "normal"?
Of course! She is a tomboy anyway. She love adventure..backpacking...staying in a farm...everything that is simple and "normal"

Instead, she has all these millionaires who adore her.
They think she is unique. She has this boyish, girlish quality combined perfectly in one body.
She can be a femme fatale in 15 minutes, the girl next door type after that, and the sexy tomboy at the end.
They love it.

They forget one thing though: all these things are merely show. She does this because it is part of her profession, she does this because these men pay her well for her time.

What she needs is just being normal, mingling with true friends, having great partner besides her...just like good old days.

So yes, she just wants to be normal. That's all.

She is about to change her life to the better.
She has good plans ahead of her.

Let's wish her luck.

Merry Christmas and enjoy the newest blog entry titled: "This Is Christmas" http://www.tia-phoenixx.com/node/3343


Tia Phoenixx

[rider014]

Define "Normal"

I would be one to suggest that most people consider themselves as " normal ". It's a pretty broad spectrum nowadays, however, I think we all have a pretty good understanding of her vision of normal and we wish her all the best on her journey