Straight?

[Tim49]

The term "straight" should be eliminated from our sexual vocabulary.

Everyone (or almost everyone) has had thoughts or desires at one point of being with someone of the same sex. Majority of guys out there would have no problem if another guy (assuming they fit certain criteria) wanted to jerk them off. Same goes for women. It's becoming socially accepted that it's ok for women to be with other women. Very few people admit to this but it's human nature. We're sex driven!

If you like transsexuals there's no way you can be straight.. Think about it,, there's a cock between their legs . Yes they have a female body but still have male genitalia. Therefore straight can be eliminated from the question. Me for example, I love the female body but I prefer a nice looking dick over a vagina anyday I can't be straight. No, it doesn't mean I'm gay because the male body (95% of the time) doesn't turn me on. So I have to be somewhere in between. Maybe bisexual because like I said almost everyone including myself have thoughts about the same sex BUT that's a rare fantasy. Add to that the question of where transsexual women fall into place? I think the term Pansexual would work nice in this situation.

I've convinced myself that's what I am. Over the last couple of years I've learned that I prefer transsexual women over genetic women. I need the female body but prefer the male parts downstairs. It's who I am and pansexual describes it well.

That's just my thoughts. These things just popped into my head when I was drinking my coffee on this fine Sunday morning

I read your reply and have to agree with your thinking ,I need to accept that I am not straight ,like you I am somewhere between straight and bi

[toban]

New terminology still needed for some of us!

Maybe we are just omni sexual.
Straight is a pretty strict question to some, why can't it be that you enjoy those that present themselves as women too.
If you are attracted to the femininity you won't mind the genitals.

However shouldn't you have to mainly be a top, or not?
Is it straight to be getting banged by girls?

If we are fully Omni-sexual then all sexual options would be on the table!

If we are Omni then we would not have to be anything, either straight, gay, bi, etc. - we would be open to any and all sexual situations, and being banged by girls would be just one of the many options available to us and that option would be fully equal to all other options.

To be Omnisexual is pretty much the same as being Pansexual where we'd all be free to do our own thing but, to me anyway, both these new terms imply a non-existent openness to intimacy with males, an openness which, in fact does not exist for me!

In my mind a new term needs to be developed for some of us who do not see sex with transsexuals as being equal to sex with male partners and who therefore strongly disagree with being designated as bi or gay for that!

[greep]

Actually the definitions for Heterosexual and homosexual that Ive read make no reference to specific sex acts. Simply stating attraction to either the same or opposite sex.

I believe a person can suck a dick and be straight, providing that dick is on transgendered female. What about straight guys that let their gf fuck them, not my thing, but that doesn't mean they are gay.

What about a straight guy in a straight club that gets picked up by Lucy took home, and lets Lucy fuck him, does that mean he is now gay or bi. Or coarse not. He still is straight.

Bottom line is, performing (or not performing) specific sex acts doesn't define your sexuality. Its the gender you are attracted to. And I fully accept Male to Female trans as... truly female, no questions asked.

I wish some of these trans would have the same open mind regarding the status of the men who are attracted to them.

[Tim49]

I want to thank everyone who responded to my question.I have read all your replies.I have done a lot of thinking , I am attracted to trans women for the same reasons as genetic women.I like the pretty face , long hair , smooth skin ,and of course the tits and ass.I also enjoy the foreplay ,with a GG I lick her pussy to get her wet and ready for sex , with TG I suck her cock to get her hard and ready for sex, then in both cases we continue on to enjoyable sex.The only difference is the sex organs and to me that does not matter.

[Mutau]

labels are only labels

@Tim49: It appears that you have read the previous replies in the thread and come to your own conclusion. Bravo! Do not get hung up on labels. Believe what is in your heart and focus on the person, the individual before you, whomever they are. The sex organs are of secondary importance, except of course when you are frolicking in bed or elsewhere.

[candyhilton]

if u like tgirls, u like tgirls. Enjoy your life while your still able to!

[TSFantasia]

When a man enjoys sex with an attractive t-girl all the natural triggers for hetero sexual arousal are there the looks, the hair, the makeup, the scents, the curves, the smooth hairless skin, the breasts and hopefully some sexy lingerie too. In my view any straight guy can have sex with a t-girl as long as the genitals stays out of sight and anal sex is assumed. For the man to actually enjoy and stay sexually stimulated with the penis "in play" he has to have at minimum a strong bi-curious/sexual side to him.

As far as guys getting topped I guess the real question is do we as t-girls have to have a "bisexual/gay" sexual orientation to actually be aroused by seeing a male ass spread eagled or doggie position in front of us?

[Tim49]

As far as guys getting topped I guess the real question is do we as t-girls have to have a "bisexual/gay" sexual orientation to actually be aroused by seeing a male ass spread eagled or doggie position in front of us?[/QUOTE]
Great question Fantasia , I look forward to reading the replies

[toban]

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[Tim49]

It's been over a year since I started this thread, I come back to it from time to time and read the replies. I still don't have inner peace . My attraction and enjoyment of Transsexuals still confuse me .I guess my inner struggle to accept those feeling will never stop.

[Mugsammy]

It's been over a year since I started this thread, I come back to it from time to time and read the replies. I still don't have inner peace . My attraction and enjoyment of Transsexuals still confuse me .I guess my inner struggle to accept those feeling will never stop.

My experience and belief...I tried with transgender, I tend to enjoy the person more then the sex. In fact, sexually really doesn't turn me on as I have trouble getting erect (never with a woman, sorry girls I don't mean that derogatively) I never want a cock up my butt, I'm usually not interested in my own sexual gratification. My interest has been solely to meet this person, get to know her a little bit, and pleasure her orally. Several have said they don't understand my being there doing that. As I didn't myself.

I've experimented. I've met some beautiful girls from Shemale Canada or backpage. I was curious (usually about cock) thought I'd give er a try. I believe those days are over with no regrets. Well, maybe a few. I've never met Lola or Eve Adams which I regret. But, I've met several other great ladies.

Based on my experiences my opinion to your question, I'd say if you enjoy it, let yourself go and enjoy it. I learned that cock is not for me, but I "had" to try. Someone in this thread commented that the term straight may as well be abolished, that we are all anything but straight. That person is wrong. I have never looked at a man that way, not even George Clooney or Brad Pit both of whom would be worthy. I have no problem looking at a man and seeing that he is handsome, wears great clothes or has a great body. Just as I can look at someone obese. That does not mean I want sex with him. I can tell you that has never crossed my mind. I'm actually proud of myself that I can look at another man with admiration, sometimes envy, and not feel threatened about my sexuality.

In my head I feel that I would date a TG exclusively but I definately am afraid of my family or friends knowing that I sucked some cock. Cock is cock whether TG cock or man cock. So, do I believe in labels? 100% yes I do. But...do I believe that because you've tried cock that you are automatically gay or bi...nope! But if you do it, love it, make it part of your sexual lifestyle...you are not straight. Therefore...pick your label. Accept it and who gives a shit!

A few of these ladies if they didn't have a penis...I would probably persue a relationship. One I have met...I would marry! So, just as cock (which is really what it's all about) is not for me...you've got defences holding you back not allowing you to fully enjoy yourself. Therefore, it's all in your head.

[chrisim]

I read an article from Dan Savage last year that helped form a label for those of us who love transgender women: bi-sexual, hetero-amorous.

As others have stated, labelling doesn't necessarily mean much and I don't believe any of us should have a hang up about our sexuality, but it sometimes feels nice to know we "fit" into a defined group.

[noahnoire]

It's been over a year since I started this thread, I come back to it from time to time and read the replies. I still don't have inner peace . My attraction and enjoyment of Transsexuals still confuse me .I guess my inner struggle to accept those feeling will never stop.

Hey, I've been going through the same thing. I find it difficult to pull the trigger on meeting the TS escort (won't say her name) I've been wanting to see for years. I am not gay as I am not attracted to men whatsoever, I find the idea of being with a guy sickening to me. However, a feminine TS I can be attracted to, even knowing what they have between their legs.

The problem I have is that, I want to live life being true to myself and not having to hide things, and I know that I would never tell any of my friends if I had been with a TS girl - no matter how gorgeous she is. The stigma of a guy that had sex with a TS girl is what I wouldn't be able to handle.


Having said all that, as a straight guy who is sometimes attracted to TS girls - I am going to see said TS escort and it won't make me gay, but I will have to keep it to myself.

[hornystan]

Forget what is between the legs. Focus on the person.

Very well said Shyla !....Being with you it is " hard " not to focus whats between your legs !

[vancouverman]

The problem I have is that, I want to live life being true to myself and not having to hide things, and I know that I would never tell any of my friends if I had been with a TS girl - no matter how gorgeous she is. The stigma of a guy that had sex with a TS girl is what I wouldn't be able to handle..

If you are being true to yourself, then why should you be hiding anything from your friends? Wouldn't you want friends that accept you being a true and authentic man? If your friends are the type of people to impose long term negativity on you over this (maybe they are religious or small town redneck types), maybe those relationships need to be re evaluated. Most guys will rib you at the beginning but that is more because they kind of like the idea too and just want to deflect, but your friends will get over it if they are your friends. There are very few guys, if you could actually see into their emotions, that would not be turned on by some of these gorgeous ladies we are seeing. And I think we all know from a lifetime of history, that the guys who are most aggressive to attack you for loving TS or being gay, generally are hating themselves because they have those feelings. People like this are not worthy of being friends to authentic people. When I got ribbed I would pull out my phone, go to SMC and show them a photo of one of the ladies I have had sex with. Then, I would show a couple more. And then I would challenge them to look in my eyes and tell me these women are not sexually appealing. The ribbing stopped They are my friends, they want to be my friends, and they accept me for who I am. As a man who loves women, trans women, and loves sex, romance, and all that jazz. Call me bisexual if I must be labelled, so what... I am having a blast in life. There is no stigma when you are authentic with people. You may "lose" a friend, which is a blessing because that means the friendship was never authentic. When you are an authentic person, you attract the same type of people; and you will lose the ones that are not. That process can be painful to lose some people; however you come out the other end with an even better circle of friends (maybe a bit smaller in number, however that is ok!) Sorry for the blunt answer