A rare look inside Montreal's Gender Reassignment Clinic

[justvisiting2016]

The other reason many worry about the orgasm etc. is that they don't want to lose their boyfriend or not be able to get one. It's not just the orgasm but often a boyfriend may say he is ok with them getting a pussy, then later leave because they don't' like it after all.

He is a pretty shitty boyfriend if he walks out after SRS .. meaning he was only there for the dick and not the person ..... better to be single than have leeches like that in your life.

[Rockheart]

He is a pretty shitty boyfriend if he walks out after SRS .. meaning he was only there for the dick and not the person ..... better to be single than have leeches like that in your life.

That's a pretty rash thing to say.
Have you experienced this before? What makes the person a leech?

So if you are in a relationship and the passion and sex goes out of it, doesn't it often end?
How does that suddenly make the man a leech? Menopause it happens all the time.
If people are not happy together, it often ends. Nothing good comes from staying with someone over guilt.

What if your girlfriend lost her legs in a car accident and could never had sex or was never interested.
Can you say for sure that you would stay for ever or never stray?
Until it happens you cannot say for sure.

I talk to many ladyboys and that is one big concern that the man may leave later, because they see it all the time.
Just like the situation above, what if suddenly your girlfriend had little or no sex drive and was not interested as she was previously? Perhaps she actually couldn't have conventional sex anymore?
SRS is pretty good these days but the fact is, this is not a real pussy and takes getting used to for some.
Especially when you have been with the same person with different sex organs, do you think that is easy?
Do you think that defines a leech?

I went through SRS with a ladyboy once and she had complications and in the end seemed totally disinterested in sex.
In the end her desire to be a woman was more important than sex or any man.
Things were never the same between us, although this wasn't the only reason things didn't work out.
Before the surgery I barely paid any attention to her penis, which I don't think really was the issue at all.
I was less turned on by her lack of desire and something of a change in personality.
Maybe we just grew apart too, who knows.

As I say in the end the boyfriend doesn't matter if they make their choice.
What he thinks doesn't matter at all in fact, so they may say they are ok with it out of love.
In the end maybe that is not the reason they got with the person.

Sometimes the orgasm and lack of sexual desire that can happen is replaced by the fact they feel like a full woman.
They thrive more on being admired and hit on by many men, than actually having the sex and orgasms.

[justvisiting2016]

Well, I didn't expect an essay in return

I just think if you are in a long term relationship with someone, if the person is trans and you know (as you are in a relationship) that your partner wants or is heading towards SRS, then don't lead the woman on. So to me, entering into a long term relationship that ends the moment that penis is gone, is a low life thing to do to someone. That is my opinion because it means there was some deception there.... men know if they like vagina or not. And if they are just with trans woman due to dicks and getting fucked (making them sex objects and not life partners), they should stay single and date and see escorts and FWBS, etc......

As for your amazing comparison about someone losing their legs in an accident and them not having sex again...... that is different by a mile.. the trans woman can have sex. It simply is the guy became her boyfriend for her dick and was gone when the dick was gone.

We don't have to agree Crag.. I just think it is wrong to get a deep commitment from someone who is heading towards SRS if you only like penises.

[Rockheart]

Well, I didn't expect an essay in return

I just think if you are in a long term relationship with someone, if the person is trans and you know (as you are in a relationship) that your partner wants or is heading towards SRS, then don't lead the woman on. So to me, entering into a long term relationship that ends the moment that penis is gone, is a low life thing to do to someone. That is my opinion because it means there was some deception there.... men know if they like vagina or not. And if they are just with trans woman due to dicks and getting fucked (making them sex objects and not life partners), they should stay single and date and see escorts and FWBS, etc......

As for your amazing comparison about someone losing their legs in an accident and them not having sex again...... that is different by a mile.. the trans woman can have sex. It simply is the guy became her boyfriend for her dick and was gone when the dick was gone.

We don't have to agree Crag.. I just think it is wrong to get a deep commitment from someone who is heading towards SRS if you only like penises.

It is not a matter of agreeing, if you are going to just come out and call people scum you will get a reply.
A reply with lots of good discussion and first hand evidence, not "that guy is shit" just because of one small thing.
You cannot speak on something like this without experience and call people scum just because of it.
You didn't even reply to one of my dozens of arguments? Nope he is scum simply because of a penis.

Stuff happens in life and things don't work out, that does not make everyone creeps and scum.
Someone may think it is ok but then in the end it is not, this is life.

You are not providing any new input just calling someone scum over and over because they left after an SRS operation. Most people have good intentions and you don't know what happens or how long it takes. Who said they left the second it happened? Maybe they didn't leave because of the SRS but the girl thinks they did.

Lots of people go into things in life that do not work out. Most don't leave or quit right away but over time for many reasons things may not work out.
People vow to marry forever, often it doesn't work out. Sometimes someone cheats sometimes other things.
People have children together and generally intend to follow it through, then things happen.
Some guys know they are probably gay yet still marry with the greatest intentions.....
Sometimes men decide to become TS and dump their wives over a "simple penis", this is not fair but.....
People commit to all sorts of things that never works out, I don't' call them scum.

Sure a guy knocks up a girl and takes off, that is a scumbag.
Breaking up with someone over sexual incompatibility isn't so bad as you make it out to be.
People break up all the time for all reasons, things just don't work out.

In the end isn't the person better off to find someone that is ok with their transformation?
There is plenty of guys out there that they could be happy with, why should they have to stay with someone that is not that happy with the situation. It goes both ways.
I am not clear how you can call someone down simply because something didn't turn out like they planned.
These situations you really don't know the out come until after it happens.
There is way more to it than just a penis.
You seem to be the one most obsessed about "THE PENIS"

[justvisiting2016]

An odd response filled with hyperbole on what I said, and I will not be replying because it's pretty clear I hit a sensitive issue with you and you ban people who disagree with you from what I can gather. So, we can just leave it at that as I do like seeing what is happening here and browsing the forum. I feel it is wrong to be deceptive in a long term relationship (hence my use of the word) and that is just how I view things.... we can disagree on that no problem.


Cheers

[Nyles]

Thanks for posting the video, Nyles. My room mate is waiting to hear back from the Brassard clinic for mastectomies. OHIP (Ontario health care) is covering costs for surgery and follow up appointments. According to them (my room mate), his technique is really good and allows the nipples to feel sensations. Other surgeons cut off the nipples, remove the breast tissue and then resew the nipples back on. However they lose sensation. Sorry to gross you people out but this is what they told me.

Now I know what the building looks like when we go there. They don't want to go alone to Montreal especially when they are uni lingual.

I wish your roommate the best of .luck.