Is having sex with an escort cheating?

[Photo Mann]

THIS is cheating . . .

Guys and gals please tell me your thoughts on this subject.Cheating or not?

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Everything else is known as variety.

[cameeindos]

er.. ANY sex without consent of one's partner in a relationship is cheating. Well IMHO at the least. lol..

[Gypsy1955]

After reading all the replies I decided to tell her about my attraction to transgender escorts & that I have been with a few while we were dating.It did not go well & now she is my ex girlfriend.I guess being honest sometimes means losing someone.This happened about 6 months ago & I recently started dating again

Obviously it wasn't an open relationship where your partner was OK with you seeing escorts. It was cheating! to me it's unbelievable how anyone can think or say otherwise or think up situations where it's not. Being honest wasn't what cost you your relationship...it was your being dishonest by cheating in the first place that cost you your relationship.

[Hockeydude89]

Yes. This is why I have not had the opportunity as of yet to be with a Tgirl. I don't have the stomach to keep something like that from someone else. Although I won't lie, I've had conversations with some Tgirls on chat rooms...does that count?

[Gypsy1955]

Yes. This is why I have not had the opportunity as of yet to be with a Tgirl. I don't have the stomach to keep something like that from someone else. Although I won't lie, I've had conversations with some Tgirls on chat rooms...does that count?

LMAO!! You're cheating! Some will come on here to say it's not but in the end it matters to one person the most...your partner. Ask yourself...do you think she'll be ok with your contacting others in chat rooms? I'm sure your doing it on the sly...if you feel you're not cheating...tell her what you're doing...I dare you!

[Hockeydude89]

LMAO!! You're cheating! Some will come on here to say it's not but in the end it matters to one person the most...your partner. Ask yourself...do you think she'll be ok with your contacting others in chat rooms? I'm sure your doing it on the sly...if you feel you're not cheating...tell her what you're doing...I dare you!

Some would say so I'm sure lol but to me cheating is physical contact. Anything else is...wrong...but not what I would call cheating unless your physically having sex with another person in person.

[Gypsy1955]

Some would say so I'm sure lol but to me cheating is physical contact. Anything else is...wrong...but not what I would call cheating unless your physically having sex with another person in person.

So you are one of the "some" that you speak of. If you are having physical, sexual contact you are cheating. Knowing why and what you are looking for and secretly in chat rooms, hiding from your partner...you are cheating. That's why I say for you to ask your partner if she feels it's cheating. I'm pretty sure of her response ( 99% of the time) and you'll be looking for another girlfriend unless you cease the activity.

[toban]

It's time to smarten up!

Some would say so I'm sure lol but to me cheating is physical contact. Anything else is...wrong...but not what I would call cheating unless your physically having sex with another person in person.

I wouldn't say that viewing such stuff is "wrong" per se, but might not ?ill-advised? be a better way of describing the viewing of something you know could cause very serious repercussions in your personal life should "others" become aware of you doing so?

In other words - Get smart!

[TSFantasia]

Who's Cheating Who?

While some guys may just be plain ole dirty dogs for cheating on a loving, affectionate spouse/GF. A lot of guys who seek out alternative "arrangements" are doing so because the wife/GF has basically cut them off or uses sex as a tool for manipulating the guy when they want something. And yeah, yeah you accept part of the blame cuz you didn't take out the garbage or mow the grass when you were told to or forgot an anniversary or two. But a wife/GF who cuts her guy off sexually every time she doesn't get her way is cheating her man out of happiness and fulfillment in the relationship and gives him a reason to look elsewhere.
Don't feed your dog and see how fast he starts going though the neighbour's trash cans.

[vancouverman]

While some guys may just be plain ole dirty dogs for cheating on a loving, affectionate spouse/GF. A lot of guys who seek out alternative "arrangements" are doing so because the wife/GF has basically cut them off or uses sex as a tool for manipulating the guy when they want something. And yeah, yeah you accept part of the blame cuz you didn't take out the garbage or mow the grass when you were told to or forgot an anniversary or two. But a wife/GF who cuts her guy off sexually every time she doesn't get her way is cheating her man out of happiness and fulfillment in the relationship and gives him a reason to look elsewhere.
Don't feed your dog and see how fast he starts going though the neighbour's trash cans.

Very true, but say that to a wife or girlfriend and more often than not they will erupt at this concept. They seem to think is is normal to cut off your guy from what he enjoys and somehow he is supposed to say "yes dear" and do nothing about it.

[Guest]

Yes it's cheating if you are married or involved and you hire sex workers.

[BIG MIKE]

Yes it is cheating no question about it...that's why I'm not married. I know who I am. I'm a person who can't...won't...or doesn't want to spend all of my time with one person. Why try and make something work that I know just isn't for me.

It's funny. Some females will be just as upset you actually speak and talk with another woman than if you just have something physical going on. If you have an emotional connection with a female that is not your significant other they will be more upset...or just as upset as you having a physical relationship with someone with no emotional connection.

There can be no sex happening, they will still be just as pissed off LOL. I have seen it happen.

[TSFantasia]

Woman Inside- No Logic Required

Yes it is cheating no question about it...that's why I'm not married. I know who I am. I'm a person who can't...won't...or doesn't want to spend all of my time with one person. Why try and make something work that I know just isn't for me.

It's funny. Some females will be just as upset you actually speak and talk with another woman than if you just have something physical going on. If you have an emotional connection with a female that is not your significant other they will be more upset...or just as upset as you having a physical relationship with someone with no emotional connection.

There can be no sex happening, they will still be just as pissed off LOL. I have seen it happen.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pBz0BTb83H8

[the_conqueror]

I can't believe there's people out there that think going behind your partners back and paying for sex is not cheating and is ok

To the op, consider staying single if you know you can't keep yourself away from the ladies.