Shaming Men Attracted to Trans Women & Its Harmful Effects

[Gypsy1955]

Your one of the good ones Gypsy in my books anyways so stick around . And being raised Catholic and then a stint in Evangelical Churches after High school that's what I said every time I masturbated or slipped into a cross dressing moment "Never again LORD, Never again!!!"" Lol.

Thank you Fantasia. So are you. I wasn't Catholic so after every time I masterbated (which was A LOT!!) I master bated again lol

[Gypsy1955]

I just read again!!

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And I love it!

[VanessaBell]

Oh boy, this topic again. Honesty time.

Shaming men who are attracted to trans women *as a whole* is generally stupid, but there is a certain subcategory of men ie. "chasers" that appear to have a lot of bizarre expectations in regard to this. To clarify what I mean by chasers, the term refers to guys who fetishize trans women and generally base their entire worldview upon porn, expecting that the trans women in question will want to use their dick in a "relationship", let alone have it touched, and as soon as the girl has surgery, poof, the guy disappears. The key problem here is that we're being fetishized for something that the majority of us hate about ourselves. Like, I don't want to be trans at all, I just want to be a regular girl like I am in my day-to-day life, so being with a guy that constantly reminds me of the fact that I am trans is just masochistic. As for the dating site topic, any trans woman who seriously looks for a relationship on any TS dating site at all is just asking for trouble -- even using something like OkCupid and including the fact that you're trans in your profile is just going to attract a bunch of chasers. Like, there's a very good reason why most of the girls using those sites are escorts. Dealing with regular guys and hoping that they take it well when I eventually tell them I'm trans is a thing I'd take any day over a chaser. I'm sure there are good guys out there who are secure in the fact that they don't mind what parts a girl has, but 99% of them are completely awful, and have really ruined it for everyone.

[Jim S]

Oh boy, this topic again. Honesty time.

Shaming men who are attracted to trans women *as a whole* is generally stupid, but there is a certain subcategory of men ie. "chasers" that appear to have a lot of bizarre expectations in regard to this. To clarify what I mean by chasers, the term refers to guys who fetishize trans women and generally base their entire worldview upon porn, expecting that the trans women in question will want to use their dick in a "relationship", let alone have it touched, and as soon as the girl has surgery, poof, the guy disappears. The key problem here is that we're being fetishized for something that the majority of us hate about ourselves. Like, I don't want to be trans at all, I just want to be a regular girl like I am in my day-to-day life, so being with a guy that constantly reminds me of the fact that I am trans is just masochistic. As for the dating site topic, any trans woman who seriously looks for a relationship on any TS dating site at all is just asking for trouble -- even using something like OkCupid and including the fact that you're trans in your profile is just going to attract a bunch of chasers. Like, there's a very good reason why most of the girls using those sites are escorts. Dealing with regular guys and hoping that they take it well when I eventually tell them I'm trans is a thing I'd take any day over a chaser. I'm sure there are good guys out there who are secure in the fact that they don't mind what parts a girl has, but 99% of them are completely awful, and have really ruined it for everyone.

It must make dating difficult, as for me, I am more attracted to what is between a girls ears and what's in her heart than what's between her legs!!!!

[TSFantasia]

Don't you think it's funny? Don't you think it's strange?

Oh boy, this topic again. Honesty time.

Shaming men who are attracted to trans women *as a whole* is generally stupid, but there is a certain subcategory of men ie. "chasers" that appear to have a lot of bizarre expectations in regard to this. To clarify what I mean by chasers, the term refers to guys who fetishize trans women and generally base their entire worldview upon porn, expecting that the trans women in question will want to use their dick in a "relationship", let alone have it touched, and as soon as the girl has surgery, poof, the guy disappears. The key problem here is that we're being fetishized for something that the majority of us hate about ourselves. Like, I don't want to be trans at all, I just want to be a regular girl like I am in my day-to-day life, so being with a guy that constantly reminds me of the fact that I am trans is just masochistic. As for the dating site topic, any trans woman who seriously looks for a relationship on any TS dating site at all is just asking for trouble -- even using something like OkCupid and including the fact that you're trans in your profile is just going to attract a bunch of chasers. Like, there's a very good reason why most of the girls using those sites are escorts. Dealing with regular guys and hoping that they take it well when I eventually tell them I'm trans is a thing I'd take any day over a chaser. I'm sure there are good guys out there who are secure in the fact that they don't mind what parts a girl has, but 99% of them are completely awful, and have really ruined it for everyone.

Awwwweeee I was hoping to hear that trans dating is wonderful in Vancouver !! Don't you think it's funny how guys a 1000+ miles away tell you if only you were closer Baby I would be your man? But curiously they are not dating a trans girl in their city? So all the trans attracted men from Vancouver are telling t-girls in Toronto and Montreal "Oh Baby if only we were closer" and all the trans attracted men in TO and Montreal are telling all the Vancouver t-girls "Oh Baby...."

And with regards to the original post here is an interesting video from a YouTuber trans woman.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxLJ_ESs3DA

[TSFantasia]

Ask A Transsexual

And another point of view from a European transsexual.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0M6nKedaNu4

[Gypsy1955]

Less than persons

Awwwweeee I was hoping to hear that trans dating is wonderful in Vancouver !! Don't you think it's funny how guys a 1000+ miles away tell you if only you were closer Baby I would be your man? But curiously they are not dating a trans girl in their city? So all the trans attracted men from Vancouver are telling t-girls in Toronto and Montreal "Oh Baby if only we were closer" and all the trans attracted men in TO and Montreal are telling all the Vancouver t-girls "Oh Baby...."

And with regards to the original post here is an interesting video from a YouTuber trans woman.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxLJ_ESs3DA

I watched the video. The young lady is upset, full of emotion. It's so easy to understand why she is upset. I haven't been using this forum very long, maybe 6 months, and very quickly seen how TG are viewed by some. To be valued as less than equal or with less respect and dignity to anybody is a bitter pill to swallow. She herself was so beautiful...I'd be proud to walk down the street with her holding onto my arm!

If I got caught the only person I would be apologizing to would be my wife. Other than my family I couldn't care less what the rest of the world think. I've got a great family and after the initial shock...they would be happy that I'm happy. I've been with my wife for 31/2 years. Almost three years into our relationship I met a young TG WHO KNOCKED MY SOCKS OFF! My eyes never even left her face and I was smitten! I and can say with certainty that had I met the beautiful young TG before her, I would probably still be with her. Both of our lives would be very different indeed!

[Gypsy1955]

I watched the video. The young lady is upset, full of emotion. It's so easy to understand why she is upset. I haven't been using this forum very long, maybe 6 months, and very quickly seen how TG are viewed by some. To be used for sex then valued as less than equal or with less respect and dignity to anybody is a bitter pill to swallow. She herself was so beautiful...I'd be proud to walk down the street with her holding onto my arm!

If I got caught the only person I would be apologizing to would be my wife and not because she was TG, but because I was cheating. Almost three years into my relationship with my now wife, I met a young TG WHO KNOCKED MY SOCKS OFF! My eyes never even left her face and I was smitten! With certainty had I met this beautiful young TG before her, I would probably still be with her, if she would have me. Both of our lives would be very different indeed!

Gggg

[cameeindos]

And another point of view from a European transsexual.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0M6nKedaNu4

That woman is cool. One of the best TS channels on the Web, let alone Youtube....

[cameeindos]

would still say it's not so black and white as made out..

I saw Treasure tha diva on this thread.....her videos are cool too (really cute and lol..) But then she acknowledges in her vids that there is a stigma in dating TSs, and that in some groups like blacks and Hispanics it's understandable why. And in US whites too, but probably not in the same way.

I reckon it will change though, and soon. I think people are slowly understanding what transgenderism is, and that's not some "weird choice" as many still think..... That said, I can understand where the prejudice comes from, even if it's ill-founded...gender is part of the basic identity of more or less any human in any culture. And changing it has never really been possible until now.

[tek1234]

I had a transgender escort call me gay because I liked to be topped , I was very surprised by her comment because other escorts ask what I like , I tell them & we proceed to have a fun time.I don't hide my attraction to their cocks because to me it's part of the total package.

[tek1234]

It’s important that we begin truly accepting trans women as who they are, women. We are not objects to have secret sex with, to discard and to laugh at on the radio or the gossip blogosphere. We are worthy of being seen and are not dirty or shameful. Until we begin checking how we delegitimize the identities, bodies and existence of trans women and stigmatize the men who yearn to be with us, we will continue to marginalize our sisters, pushing them further into socially-sanctioned invisibility, left in the dark to fend for themselves with men who don’t have the space to explore, define and embrace their attraction to various women.[/QUOTE]
Well said

[transgenderlover336]

In my eyes you are ladies whether you were born that way or not. You girls are beautiful and I would be proud to be with any of you.
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[transgenderlover336]

You are all beautiful and having a cock is a bonus
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[handpuppetboy]

On the other hand I've seen where girls call clients pigs, fags and such.

Sounds like Barbie.