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[Jonesing]

there are some very refreshing views on sexuality in this thread and I think it is a good topic to start off this kind of exchange of opinion. some of the comments have opened my mind and I think any mind opening experiences are good ones

I prefer to top but I enjoy anal beads and other prostate stimulation so I am in no place to judge a guy who wants more fulfillment (pun intended) and where do we draw the line? I know GGs that enjoy topping their men but they are not lesbians and don't see themselves as less feminine for it.

I understand fantasia's point of view. A long while back I belonged to a transgender dating forum which was an introductory forum for men who want to find a transgender lady as a life partner. I read the stickies about etiquette and there were detailed explanations as to what a man should expect from his transgenderl partner. One section specifically mentioned this whole topping and bottoming situation. According to this site if a man is looking for an experience where he is the bottom he is better served by seeing a tgirl escort as transgender women want to be seen as women and not kinky men in dresses. The reference to tgirl escorts was rather scathing and made it sound like tgirl escorts were freaks of nature a whole different type of being than transgender women. I think most people don't understand what transgender women be they escorts or not go through in life having never walked in their shoes.

[Tia Phoenixx]

there are some very refreshing views on sexuality in this thread and I think it is a good topic to start off this kind of exchange of opinion. some of the comments have opened my mind and I think any mind opening experiences are good ones

I prefer to top but I enjoy anal beads and other prostate stimulation so I am in no place to judge a guy who wants more fulfillment (pun intended) and where do we draw the line? I know GGs that enjoy topping their men but they are not lesbians and don't see themselves as less feminine for it.

I understand fantasia's point of view. A long while back I belonged to a transgender dating forum which was an introductory forum for men who want to find a transgender lady as a life partner. I read the stickies about etiquette and there were detailed explanations as to what a man should expect from his transgenderl partner. One section specifically mentioned this whole topping and bottoming situation. According to this site if a man is looking for an experience where he is the bottom he is better served by seeing a tgirl escort as transgender women want to be seen as women and not kinky men in dresses. The reference to tgirl escorts was rather scathing and made it sound like tgirl escorts were freaks of nature a whole different type of being than transgender women. I think most people don't understand what transgender women be they escorts or not go through in life having never walked in their shoes.

Fantasia has shared an honest GENERAL view/preference of trans women and you too, an honest opinion of a normal, open minded straight man.

Most women are passive/bottom and most men are top/active naturally.

In real life, All men fuck me and I am more than happy to surrender my ass

Only as an escort I do all these extras, simply because I get paid for it.

So yes, escorting is definitely a profession.

I won't sleep with 95 per cent of my clients if there is no money involved.

Just being honest here.


Now, time to board my plane. It is only 5:40 am...I'm still sleepy

[TSFantasia]

there are some very refreshing views on sexuality in this thread and I think it is a good topic to start off this kind of exchange of opinion. some of the comments have opened my mind and I think any mind opening experiences are good ones

I prefer to top but I enjoy anal beads and other prostate stimulation so I am in no place to judge a guy who wants more fulfillment (pun intended) and where do we draw the line? I know GGs that enjoy topping their men but they are not lesbians and don't see themselves as less feminine for it.

I understand fantasia's point of view. A long while back I belonged to a transgender dating forum which was an introductory forum for men who want to find a transgender lady as a life partner. I read the stickies about etiquette and there were detailed explanations as to what a man should expect from his transgenderl partner. One section specifically mentioned this whole topping and bottoming situation. According to this site if a man is looking for an experience where he is the bottom he is better served by seeing a tgirl escort as transgender women want to be seen as women and not kinky men in dresses. The reference to tgirl escorts was rather scathing and made it sound like tgirl escorts were freaks of nature a whole different type of being than transgender women. I think most people don't understand what transgender women be they escorts or not go through in life having never walked in their shoes.

I have no issue with men who like anal stimulation and still offer that through fingers, toys, and strap-ons. For me to top requires at least some mental turn on and sexual arousal at the idea and while I never need anything like Viagra when a guy approaches me as the woman to get and maintain erections even Viagra doesn't work when something is an active turn off to you as topping is to me, and the loss of feeling from using a condom doesn't help either, and the fact that 80% of the guys are not properly prepped (ie anal douched) and have resulted in many messy experiences was the final nail in the coffin to me ever being a "top" SP.

Your comments about trans women's attitude towards t-girls escorts and porn would be echoed by bio-sexed females who also see females involved in the sex industry in a very negative light as sexually objectifying women and reducing them to sex object and fetishes.

In the heterosexual , gay, and bisexual world there are tops and bottoms a lid for every pot if you will . In gay & bisexual couples many are versatile "taking turns". In heterosexual couples of course the man is the top and the woman is the bottom except for the odd "kinky, fetish" sex play and role reversal sessions. For trans women in transition you would think that it is not rocket science to know that this ship has already sailed as trans women in general want to emulate their bio-sexed female counterparts in society & relationships. Again not talking about the broader "transgender" umbrella terms which include fetish crossdressers, transvestites, drag queens, etc. Of course there is going to be a HUGE difference between those who live 24/7 as women and those who live 90% as men and 10% of their time in their "transgender" identities.

[xoxJanexox]

Another chicken or egg phenomena!

We have been dealing with the egg and chicken phenomena for a long time and it will continue until some people end where their predecessors ended, that is Craigslist casual encounters section. Plenty of top men there!